KEEPING IT REAL COUNTS

You Think telling him a little white lie can’t hurt? Wrong! A guy reveals the tall lies that could cost you your true love.
When interacting with the opposite sex, communication is everything. Simply put, faithfulness is everything. It's not always easy to be transparent when you’re getting to know each other, but it’s 100% necessary.
Keeping things honest will help you avoid leading on Mr. Wrong or turning off Mr. Right. Be yourself and be real. Little white lies will get you nowhere, especially in these categories
Your birthday
I know the rule: You never ask a woman her age. However, when it comes to dating, this rule must be broken. Don’t lie about your age.
If he’s turned off, at least you will know where you both stand immediately. Lying about your age will instantly make you seem insecure, especially if you’re older. Keep it real, ladies!
Your number
Discussing your sexual history is always tricky, but it's unavoidable if things between you are becoming serious. I know all women won't be in agreement here but, when it does come up, I say be open and honest about it.
If he asks how many people you've slept with before him, don't give him the "safe" number. Give him the real one. If he can't handle your answer, that's on him—not you.
Your real thoughts on his friends
If you’re not “cool” with his friends, you shouldn’t pretend to be. However, you should keep an open mind when getting to know them, it's very important that you find a way to be open with him about your doubts instead of forcing yourself to hang out with people you just don’t care for.

How cool are you with him having 'female friends'

Not every woman will be comfortable with her man's best friend forever being a female.
This is something you must be honest with yourself and him about it.
The issues you overlook in the beginning can potentially become romantic barriers later on down the line.
 Don’t tell him you’re “cool with it” when you’re not. He’ll see right through this one.

Your marriage goals
Most women assume that talking about marriage will scare a man off, but that’s false. The man that’s right for you will want to know where you really stand especially if he’s on a different path.
There is a way to be open about where you desire to be in the future in terms of your relationship without putting too much pressure on the present situation. Saying you don’t want to be married when you clearly do, will send him running for the mountains.

The ex-factor
If your ex is still in the picture, say so. It’s very important not to hide a connection to an ex, and for him as well to reveal any women in his life.
 As long as you both keep it real in this department, there will be no unwanted surprises.
Unwanted surprises are not healthy in a relationship.
Your bedroom activities
Don’t ever tell a man he’s the best you’ve ever had unless it's the actual truth.
 You may want to feed his ego, but it won’t work that way if you’re lying. If you tell him he's the best then he has no room to improve. Compliment him but don't overdo it.
He’ll appreciate the reality.

How much you like sports
Your interest in sports isn't as important to him as you think. As long as he can watch the game, he's fine.
You don't have to watch it with him. If you really aren’t that interested in his favorite football or basketball team, it shouldn’t bother him one bit, so don’t fake it.

JENNIFER LOPEZ AND EX HUSBAND TOGETHER FOR XMASS

Jennifer Lopez will reportedly spend Christmass with ex husbamd Marc Anthony.

The 44-year-old singer has been dating boyfriend Casper Smart for two years but Marc's relationship with 23-year-old Topshop heir Chloe Green is relatively new.
According to UK newspaper The Sun, the foursome will soon join each other for holiday festivities, putting aside any potential awkwardness for the sake of the former couple's five-year-old twins.
"J-Lo and Marc want to have Christmas together with their twins Emme and Max so Chloe and Caspar are likely to go along too," a source said.
"The couple are on good terms so it should be fine, though Chloe will miss Christmas in Barbados."
Marc and Jennifer divorced in 2011 after seven years of marriage.
Recent reports suggested she was "panicking" about losing her ex.
"Jen's made is clear she's misses Marc and the good times they had - she's been saying she wants him back in her life. She told him it was crazy they still get on so well," a source told British magazine Closer last month.
Apparently Marc has made it clear he still cares about Jen as well.
He's said to be rethinking his relationship with Chloe after the star made her feelings clear.
"[Jennifer] is afraid of being on her own and says she needs him in her life. While Marc is besotted with Chloe, it's clear he still cares about Jen. Her admission has made him start thinking seriously about his future with Chloe.

7 THINGS WOMEN OFTEN LIE ABOUT AND WHY

Men should just realize that a woman can never have too many pairs of wedge heels and not place her in the position of lying.

1. THEIR WEIGHT: One of the things women commonly lie about is their weight. This is probably the thing they most commonly lie about. Even the most honest woman may be shaving five pounds off of her weight when she is asked about it. No woman wants to appear as a large woman. She wants to be seen as petite and delicate.
2. THEIR AGE: Ageing is difficult, especially for women. As men age, they become more distinguished. As women age, well, we just feel like we become old. And that reality is hard to swallow for some of us so we lie about it. It doesn’t make us any younger to lie about our age but it might make us feel a little younger and that is a temptation that many cannot resist.
3. THEIR COOKING: None of us can deny the fact that we live in a very fast paced world. We don’t have time to cook the things we would like to cook as long as we would like to cook them. Many, many women have attempted to pass off a store bought goody as one they prepared themselves. Even if they don’t say it in as many words, they may attempt to give that impression by placing the food item in a personal dish. At the very least, they won’t reveal their secrets.

4. THEIR SHOPPING HABITS: Many women also lie about their shopping habits. But really, that should be understandable. Men should just realize that a woman can never have too many pairs of wedge heels and not place her in the position of lying. Wouldn’t you agree, ladies? Many women lie about their shopping habits to keep an argument down.
5. THE MONEY THEY SPEND: Going hand in hand with lying about their shopping habits is the fact that many women lie about how much money they spend. They may not totally lie but just stretch the truth a little on this subject. They may spend it on having their hair or nails done, shopping, lunch with a friend or just little inconsequential things. But the temptation to lie about how much money they spend, especially if they are married, can be quite high. A little white lie seems much better than an ugly argument.
6. THEIR MARRIAGE: Many women choose to present a prettier picture than there really is of their marriage. I actually don’t believe that this is totally a bad thing. While I do believe lying outright is very wrong, I believe painting your spouse in the best light is the best thing to do for yourself, for them and your marriage. When you choose to talk positively about your spouse, everybody wins. You feel better about them, they feel better about you and your marriage benefits.
7. THEIR LIFE: Many women don’t want to admit dissatisfaction with their lives, even to themselves. And while putting on a brave face is a noble thing to do, it isn’t always the best thing to do. If you are struggling with things in your life, go to a friend or a trusted counselor or religious leader for counsel. We all have hard times and we should help each other through them. It is much better to talk about how wonderful your life is when it really is.

THE JOURNEY TO MISS WORLD 2013

As we all know Miss World is current taking place in Indonesia and our own Miss Tanzania Brigitte Lyimo she is representing us.
They are 123 contestant under one roof and everyone is hoping to win the Miss World Title.
Here  are some photo of the contestant enjoy the beauty of Indonesia. And we wish them all the best

Miss Kenya

Miss South Sudan

Miss Tanzania

Miss Bahamas

Miss Hong Kong

Miss Ukraine

Miss Guinea

NEWEST FASHION TREND IN WOMAN

If you’re dying to get on board with the newest fashion trend in women’s clothing, you’re probably wondering how to wear high waist pants. There are correct and incorrect ways to wear these trendy trousers, and if you follow the rules, you’ll look superb in your new pants.

High waist pants fall on a different part of your body than other types of pants. As a result, you might need a different size than you’re used to, depending on the size of your waist. Don’t get too hung up on the number on the tag of the pants. Instead, focus on the way they fit.

The easiest way to ensure that your pants fit correctly is to bring a friend with you when you try them on. Your friend can tell you if they look too small when you’re standing in a natural or neutral position.

There is no point in wearing high waist pants if nobody knows what they are. Tuck your shirt in to show off the upper part of the pants. You can even accessorize with a fun belt or scarf.

One of the best and worst things about high waist pants is that they elongate your legs. If you’re short, this is probably good news. If you’re tall, the last thing you need is to look even taller.

Tall women wearing high waist pants can get away with wearing flat shoes. Short women in high waist pants should opt for a heel or platform style shoes.

High waist pants are not the ideal fashion item to play with color. These pants are eye catching enough on their own without being brightly colored or patterned. Stick with neutral tan colors, black, white, and denim pants for the best look.

VOTE FOR AY FOR CHOAMVA MOST GIFTED MALE VIDEO

The 2013 Channel O Africa Music Video Awards were launched this week in Johannesburg and Lagos.

The good news is our own artist or i call him Ambwene , famous know as AY he is also nominated for this awards.

Ay he is nominated for Most Gifted Video of the year with his song 'Party Zone' which he featuring Marco Chali along with Nigeria's Iyanya 'flavour' , Wiszkid ' Azonto' South Africa's Donald 'Over The Moon'.

Ay need our vote and if we want him to bring the award back home like how it happened last year we need to vote as much as we can.

You can vote by going to website which is www.channelo.tv or you can write AY short code which is AY/Marco Chali and send it to +2783142100415 

I did Vote now it is your turn 

http://channelo-awards.dstv.com/nomineeList.aspx?cat=55

Check out the nominated video 

Kim Kardashian New Hair Makeover

Wow!

Kim Kardashian looked absolutely stunning as she arrived at a friend's barbecue with her new blond hair.

The new mother brought along baby North West for the family filled outing.

This is not the first time that the 32 years old has transformed her brunette locks for a lighter shade.

In 2012 Kim changed her look and showcased her new do on her Instagram account.

She also tweeted at the time "Blond hair don't care" and "Hair done nails done everything did and i loved it"

So what do you think of Kim new look, did she nailed it?