You Think telling him a little white lie can’t hurt? Wrong! A guy reveals the tall lies that could cost you your true love.
When interacting with the opposite sex, communication is everything. Simply put, faithfulness is everything. It's not always easy to be transparent when you’re getting to know each other, but it’s 100% necessary.
Keeping things honest will help you avoid leading on Mr. Wrong or turning off Mr. Right. Be yourself and be real. Little white lies will get you nowhere, especially in these categories
Your birthday
I know the rule: You never ask a woman her age. However, when it comes to dating, this rule must be broken. Don’t lie about your age.
If he’s turned off, at least you will know where you both stand immediately. Lying about your age will instantly make you seem insecure, especially if you’re older. Keep it real, ladies!
Your number
Discussing your sexual history is always tricky, but it's unavoidable if things between you are becoming serious. I know all women won't be in agreement here but, when it does come up, I say be open and honest about it.
If he asks how many people you've slept with before him, don't give him the "safe" number. Give him the real one. If he can't handle your answer, that's on him—not you.
Your real thoughts on his friends
If you’re not “cool” with his friends, you shouldn’t pretend to be. However, you should keep an open mind when getting to know them, it's very important that you find a way to be open with him about your doubts instead of forcing yourself to hang out with people you just don’t care for.
How cool are you with him having 'female friends'
Not every woman will be comfortable with her man's best friend forever being a female.
This is something you must be honest with yourself and him about it.
The issues you overlook in the beginning can potentially become romantic barriers later on down the line.
Don’t tell him you’re “cool with it” when you’re not. He’ll see right through this one.
Your marriage goals
Most women assume that talking about marriage will scare a man off, but that’s false. The man that’s right for you will want to know where you really stand especially if he’s on a different path.
There is a way to be open about where you desire to be in the future in terms of your relationship without putting too much pressure on the present situation. Saying you don’t want to be married when you clearly do, will send him running for the mountains.
The ex-factor
If your ex is still in the picture, say so. It’s very important not to hide a connection to an ex, and for him as well to reveal any women in his life.
As long as you both keep it real in this department, there will be no unwanted surprises.
Unwanted surprises are not healthy in a relationship.
Your bedroom activities
Don’t ever tell a man he’s the best you’ve ever had unless it's the actual truth.
You may want to feed his ego, but it won’t work that way if you’re lying. If you tell him he's the best then he has no room to improve. Compliment him but don't overdo it.
He’ll appreciate the reality.
How much you like sports
Your interest in sports isn't as important to him as you think. As long as he can watch the game, he's fine.
You don't have to watch it with him. If you really aren’t that interested in his favorite football or basketball team, it shouldn’t bother him one bit, so don’t fake it.
